Fact: the teen years are host to one of the biggest transitions you’ll ever experience in your life. This is the season when your entire being, your body, mind, heart, and soul shift from being a child to being a sexually mature young adult.

The sad part is that I couldn’t even see the lie I was being fed. After all, I was pretty close to being china! (which begs the question, could ceramic even become china or were these identities immutable?) We were taught to compare ourselves to objects. Objects made to be used by another person and then put away until they needed to be used again.